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Breastfeeding Month: Guest Post #2

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We hope you all enjoyed our first guest post on breastfeeding. Here I will be introducing our second guest post of the month.


Haylee Galloway is a mom on a mission to combat overwhelm & burnout in the lives of working moms. She knows from experience how stress can impact both our physical & mental health, & lead to a feeling of despair. She created Maybe Sometime Mom to help working mothers manage their mommy mayhem & regain perspective about what it means to be successful.
     
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I Never Imagined I Would Be Breastfeeding A Toddler

 

Before I became a mom, I really didn’t give breastfeeding a thought. I could not comprehend why there was such a debate over it, both amongst moms and within our media. Once I became pregnant, however, things changed quickly and suddenly breastfeeding mattered!

 

The main reason I chose to breastfeed was for convenience and the high cost of formula. It made sense to me, having lived on a farm, that breastfeeding would be the clear choice.

 

But Oh My Goodness…The Pain!

 

I never expected it to hurt, but a few days after we arrived home, I took my daughter to town in search of a nipple shield to save myself from pure torture. It made a huge difference and I was able to continue breastfeeding her throughout my maternity leave.

 

Four months later, we had a problem. I had created a monster!!!!

 

It was time for me to go back to work, and the daycare called to let me know that she would not take a bottle. I had to nurse her in the car before I dropped her off, drive over on my lunch break, and then nurse her in the car again when I picked her up!

 

Since she had been nursing more often than that, and I wasn’t willing to give up on the daycare being able to bottle-feed her, I pumped at work daily.

 

In the file room.
My only other option was the bathroom, and that would just be weird.


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Since there wasn’t an electric outlet in the file room, I went through a TON of batteries in the first few months before investing in an extension cord.

 

The ladies at daycare were great and eventually convinced my daughter to sip milk from a spoon. And they fed her that way until she was old enough to start eating solids!

 

When she turned a year old, I tried to wean her, but she was not in agreement. I did stop pumping at that time because it was so much trouble.

 

Her second birthday came around, and though she was only nursing to sleep and for comfort, she still wasn’t ready to wean.

 

Since I felt such a connection to her during our nursing sessions after being at work all day, I let it continue.

 

Her third birthday passed this last December, and no amount of convincing will get her to give up her “nursie mommies.” So I can proudly say I am still nursing my daughter after a little over three years.
 
 
Thanks for sharing your story with us Haylee!

Cherish Every Moment

 As I sit here looking into my two and a half month old eyes I worry about her and my other children’s future. I vow to protect them in every way possible. I pray daily for their safety. 
 
Everyday there is something on television about killings, shootings and missing children. I wonder how do we progress ahead with all of this negativity surrounding our communities? As a parent I feel as though we shouldn’t have to seclude or refrain from doing certain activities due to being afraid of what may happen. 
 
Parents I believe it is our duty to communicate with our children. It is a two way street meaning your children shouldn’t have a issue coming to you to talk about whatever is on their heart. Even though our children are our babies giving them the freedom to express their thoughts and feelings helps them get rid of baggage that they may be holding on to.
 
Education is important. Going to school is something most children enjoy. They have fun learning and have friends they interact with daily. For some that’s not the case. They don’t enjoy school and don’t care to interact with other children. Which should be a red flag for educators and parents. If your children are coming home and going into their room with the door close they are loners. They don’t care to be in the presence of others. If your children are social and love being around friends and family than that’s a good sign. I’m not expert on this topic just expressing my opinion but either way loner or social children they need an open door policy to express themselves. 
 
The stories that the news stations have been covering recently are frightening. I listen to the stories daily and my heart hurts for most. In the back of my mind comes the what ifs and why didn’t they do this or that. But who am I to judge or even ask those questions. My oldest child will be starting kindergarten in the summer and I am a nervous wreck. I just hope and pray that through it all we can come together as a community and country to stop all this madness that is affecting our communities and most importantly our children.

Kindergarten. Are You Ready?

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Spring is near. Meaning the school year is almost over.
 
My daughter is currently in pre-k because her birthday falls after September first. September first is the cut off for children that are not five years old by that date. Sucks right? Well this year we are preparing for her to start kindergarten at the end of summer.
 
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As her mother I am excited but scared as well.
 
Going to pre-k daily to learn is great but the learning doesn’t stop there. She has a schedule at home that we follow to ensure she is taking in all the curriculum she is being taught. I recently attended an open house for a charter school that I want her to attend and I learned about the assessment that the teachers usually do with the students the first month of school. I was told that the assessment is done to see where exactly the student is with the basics. When I say the basics I mean knowing their abcs, numbers, colors, know their first and last name in addition to spelling it and some other things.
 
Kindergarten huh?
 
Do I feel she is ready for kindergarten? Yes I do. My daughter is not your average five year old. I remember being out in public and constantly getting asked how old is she. A lot of people say she is very mature for her age. They use to speak on how she act in public and her manners. She is very independent. She has always been that way but it increased a year and a half ago when her brother was born. She adjusted and knew that she had to be a role model for him. Also giving birth to her little sister two and a half months ago she understands that she has two younger siblings that are watching her every move.
 
 
I stress the importance of discipline within my house. This will continue until all of my children are out on their own. I believe the earlier you start it will carry on in their daily activity.

 

Preparing for kindergarten came sooner than later meaning the time is creeping up on us. August will be here before I know it.

 

Which is why I have a checklist of five things I took into consideration while preparing to send my daughter to kindergarten:

 

Clothing – if the school requires uniform or not. If the school requires uniform that is an additional cost that I will have to save for now. This also goes for regular clothes as well. I prefer uniforms because I like the overall presentation. Actually yesterday one of my neighbors was going to send her child to the same school last year but ended up sending her to the school in our attendance zone. She purchased all the uniforms necessary for her child. She bought them to me and my daughter can fit them. YES!! Which means I have a stash of brand new uniforms at a discounted amount. Can’t beat a steal.

 

Transportation – school bus or not. I take my daughter to pre-k everyday and pick her up. To be honest her riding the bus scares me but if you ask her she wants to. The school I attended for open house actually doesn’t provide bus service so I have to dedicate to picking her up and dropping her off. So flexibility is key here.

 

Foreign Language – spanish or french. Majority of the schools here in georgia offer spanish. Some offer it within the curriculum or at an extra cost. The school we are considering offers spanish as an elective in addition to music, physical education and art. This is a great age for her to start learning another language and learn about other cultures.

 

Class size – big or small. I know that some schools have a shortage in school teachers meaning the classrooms can be extremely large. On average kindergarten classes can range from 18-24 children in a class. For me 18 is more ideal and 24 is too much. I know I don’t have the final say in personnel hiring but as a parent I want my daughter to have a personable relationship with her teacher (s).

 

Technology – computers or not. Children these days are tech savvy. My daughter knows how to use a iPad and computer. She is not an expert but has the knowledge to do so. While attending the open house the school had four computers in the classroom that the students would utilize at specified times and/or days. I like this idea because most kids are visual learners and videos sometimes grabs their attention more than a lecture.

 

I hope each of these topics on my checklist help you in making your decision when sending your little one off to kindergarten. This checklist could be taken into consideration for any age but mine is specific to my daughter since she will be attending kindergarten in August.

 

Comment below with your thoughts on my checklist. Also, I would love to hear other topics that were considered when sending your little one to kindergarten.
 
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Breastfeeding Month: Guest Post #1

We hope you all enjoyed our first story on “The Fearless Mommy” during our breastfeeding month. We found it necessary to share some other mommies breastfeeding stories. There is no perfect journey. Through the stories displayed on the blog you will see that as mommies we go through good things and bad things and sometimes as tired as we may be we stick it out for the better.

I want to introduce our guest for the week. 

Guest Name: Christina

Guest Location: Midwest

3 facts about Guest: She enjoys spending time with her children, traveling and watching horror movies and television shows.



When I had my first child, I breastfed her until she was four months old.

Breastfeeding was very painful and was never easy for me. I started pumping daily. I pumped two to three times everyday to try to increase my milk supply.

I thought pumping would have made it easier for me but it only left me with sore nipples everyday.

I would blame it on the breast pump I was using at the time. 

Yes it was an electric pump. Medela by the way.

With my first child I didn’t know much about breastfeeding. A lot of the information I came across was from researching online or reading books.


If I would prepared a little more I feel like this experience could have been different.

Now I have a five month old I feel that I have more knowledge about breastfeeding.

The demands of staying consistent with breastfeeding are what made me stop the first time. The second time around I knew what to expect so it wasn’t a surprise.

Once my second child was born I realized I was very comfortable breastfeeding.  

I had pain for the first two weeks and after that it was a piece of cake.

This time around my Medela electric breast pump has definitely been a lifesaver.

I love the connections I have gained with both of my children during my breastfeeding moments. However, my five month old no longer gets breast milk due to my crazy work schedule. I work five days a week. First shift. Which means a thirty minute lunch. Within my lunch I would have to squeeze in time to pump and eat.

Working in corporate SUCKS!

Even though I wasn’t able to go past the four month mark with both my children I wouldn’t change my experience at all. I learned a lot about myself within this journey and the effect it has on my children’s health.

If you are a mother or expecting a child and you are reading my story know that even though I only breastfed for four months you can surpass me and beat the odds. I believe every woman should experience breastfeeding in some way. Two weeks? One month? Two month and so forth.



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The Fearless Mommy Presents Breastfeeding Month

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Happy Tuesday!!
New Month,
New Goals,
New Topics &
New Week.
Let’s make it count!
This month we will be highlighting something very special to me – BREASTFEEDING!!
(Pictured above is myself and my 2 Month old baby girl)
I have three children and each of my breastfeeding stories are different.
My oldest daughter, Naima is five years old and I breastfed her for two months. She was my first child so I wanted to do everything right and that included breastfeeding her because everybody made it out to be “THE RIGHT THING TO DO”. I didn’t know much about breastfeeding at the time I was just happy not having to buy formula.
Well to my surprise, Naima was born three weeks early due to low fluid. The hospital started my induction a Friday afternoon and she was born that Saturday morning. Naima weighed 5 lbs and 4ozs. After giving birth she had problems latching on. I worked with a lactation consultant while in the hospital and she still wasn’t able to latch on properly. I had to start pumping my milk to provide a supply for my baby. I pumped two to three times each day. After being home I wasn’t eating the same which caused my milk supply to decrease. Due to my lack of knowledge about breastfeeding I switched my baby to Gerber Gentle Powdered Milk.
My middle child is Braxton, my son who is almost two years old and I breastfed him for twelve months. With having a little bit of knowledge on breastfeeding I knew I wanted to make this story completely different. I did my research and learned more about breastfeeding which came in handy. I knew before giving birth to my son that I would breastfeed again. I knew from experience that if he didn’t latch on immediately I would have to work harder.
Well to my surprise, Braxton was born five days before his due date weighing 7 lbs and 4 ozs. After giving birth and once the nurses cleaned him up he immediately latched on and started to feed. He was on a very demanding schedule. He had to eat every two hours like clockwork and even sometimes every one and a half hours. I was a very tired mama but I was determined to provide him with my liquid gold.
I was home EBF (exclusively breastfeeding) for twelve weeks before returning back to work. I froze some milk while home but it wasn’t a lot of it. I made it a habit to pump three to four times a day to build a supply for the next day and so forth and this continued every week. My pumped milk took over the fridge.
Braxton started child care at three months due to me returning back to work at the time. While returning back to work I sometimes had thirty minutes or an hour lunch break. Within that allowed time i had to pump and eat lunch which sometimes meant no time to relax. also, it meant I had to store my milk in the work refrigerator. I would have preferred my own mini fridge, but oh well. While at child care I made sure to take four bottles each five ounces for him to drink. Some days he would drink all bottles and some days only three. It all depended on his appetite and sleeping pattern. At one point I thought my milk supply was decreasing so I purchased oatmeal raisin lactation cookies from toys’r’us. Out of a pack of 12 cookies I ate two. I wasn’t a fan of the taste. I realized shortly after my milk supply didn’t decrease.
I remember a week before him starting child care trying out a bottle for the first time. He took to it just fine so i was happy about that. Feedings at night were not so bad because I prepared myself to wake up three to four times until he got on a sleeping schedule. Once he got on a sleeping schedule he would wake up one to two times through the night. I will admit we did co-sleep so during feedings I would just roll over to feed him until he fell back asleep. When he turned four month he started eating baby food which decreased a little of the milk intake. Around this time he would consumer about three bottles in addition to baby food for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Sounds like a lot huh? Yes, Braxton was a greedy boy and still is. Around nine months he was more vocal on when he was hungry so it was easier with feedings. He was still EBF (exclusively breastfeeding) but around this time it was only one early morning feeding. At this point I had surpassed my goal of three, six and nine months so the only thing left for me was to hit my twelve month goal of breastfeeding. Due to traveling plans just one day away from his birthday that was the last time he was breastfed. Once he turned one years old officially we switched him to whole milk. The transition was not bad at all.
My youngest daughter, Nuri who is two months old is currently EBF (exclusively breastfeeding). Nuri was born two days before her due date weighing 6 lbs and 14 ozs. Immediately soon as she came out she was ready to eat as soon as the nurse placed her on my chest for skin-to-skin we realized she was hungry. I placed her on my chest to feed and she latched on with no question. She is also on a very demanding schedule eating every tow hours unless she is sleep. She sleeps for three to four hours after feedings sometimes. She feeds one to two times during early mornings. UPDATE: Nuri is approaching six months and she feeds three to four times during the days and eats about two to three times through the night. She is attempting to sit up but not quite yet. She spends time in her rocker and she just recently got a walker. She loves to smile and laugh.
As you can see each story is different. My youngest child story is just getting started. UPDATE: We are half way to our goal of twelve months. YAYY!!
This month we will have four guest from four different women. Each will give us their breastfeeding stories. they will give us the good and bad of their experiences, tips and recommendations.
Mommies let us know your pros/cons about breastfeeding from your experience. Comment below!
P.S. Below are some products that helped me on my breastfeeding journey.
 




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Peer Pressure After Having My Baby

Thoughts post-baby..

“After having my baby I’m going to workout”
“I’m ordering some flat tummy tea soon as I drop this baby”
“My body will never be the same after having this baby”
  
These are some of the thoughts we as women think about before and after having a baby. These thoughts can have an negative affect on the way you view yourself. Sometimes being hard on yourself can put a dampen on your mood and attitude which can lead to stress or even postpartum depression. Postpartum depression is something that is out of one’s control because sometimes feelings takeover the body, but if one is never feeling like themselves they should seek help.
With today’s society, women are too caught up in trying to look like the next woman they see on social media, when in deed, they should work on a routine to create a new habit. Everything on social media is not always true nor always real. For example, if you want a new car you should work hard to get that new car whether you are financing it or paying in cash. The same goes for wanting your body to look better. You should always try to create a routine or habit that will enable you to change things around to better your life. It’s about taking charge of the things you want. So if you want to change your outer appearance than take the necessary steps to make it possible.
As women and mother’s we can get busy but don’t let that dictate a change that you feel is necessary in your life. The same way you plan out your monthly budget you should do the same when it comes to your health. If you need daily motivation make sticky notes visible in places that you frequent around the house to use as a reminder daily. Baby steps could be a start to a life change but only if you think of it as a change for the better. 
After having my third child just about two months ago, I remember packing to leave the hospital and while in the mirror I snapped a quick picture of myself. My initial thought of snapping the picture was to see how big my stomach was after having my baby. I don’t feed into the hype about snapping right back after having a baby but more so about having my own wants and wishes about my body. Yes, I do want my flat tummy back but on my terms. I don’t follow trends I stay in my own lane. I’ve learned since having my third child that I must learn to take time for myself more than usual. I made a vow to start taking it slow but to add fitness into my daily routine.
Below are six habits that I have implemented into my daily routine. I’m sharing them because if you find yourself wanting to get back to yourself after having a baby these small habits can help build that fire back up.

Six Habits:

  1. Walk for about 15-20 minutes daily
  2. Do 25-50 jumping jacks daily
  3. Be sure to drink 8 glasses of water daily
  4. Be sure to eat 3 meals a day (make sure portions of food are not too big to avoid over eating)
  5. 15 minutes of cardio
  6. Take multivitamins

These habits are not in a particular order so do them as you please.

Moms comment below if you find these habits helpful. I am not an expert but I am recommending some habits to try out daily based on personal experience.

 
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